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A Tribute to Love’s Imperfections


Mrs. Lee’s Story

“Mrs. Lee, I believe you have some words to say about the dearly departed.”, said the funeral director as he invited Mrs. Lee up to the podium to speak. The petite, elegant widow walked slowly to the front of the small chapel and calmly began her eulogy.

“I am not going to sing praises for my late husband. Not today. Neither am I going to talk about how good he was.” Mrs. Lee’s eyes flashed.

“Enough people have done that here.” She took a deep breath, allowing the air to fill her lungs before she continued. “Instead, I want to talk about some things that will make some of you feel a bit uncomfortable

Several people stopped fanning themselves and sat up a little straighter. “First off, I want to talk about what happened in bed.” She paused dramatically, shifting her weight from side to side. “Have you ever had difficulty starting your car engine in the morning?” She carefully studied the faces about the room. With a loud, grinding sound, she snorted and rumbled, violently shaking her tiny frame.

“Well, that’s exactly what David’s snoring sounded like.” A cough rose up from the center of the audience. “But wait,” she continued. “Snoring wasn’t the only thing.” “There was also this rear-end wind action as well. Some nights it was so forceful, it would wake him up.” A child giggled into her hand while her red-faced mother stifled a grin.

‘What was that?’ he would ask.

‘Oh, it’s the dog,’ I would say. Patting his back and smoothing the covers, I would urge him to go back to sleep.” She touched her hair as if remembering the way her hands felt as they placed themselves on her husband’s gasping body. “Oh, you might find this very funny,” Mrs. Lee offered the whisper of a smile.. “But when his illness was at its worst, these sounds provided comfort and proof that my David was still alive.”

Silence washed over the room. Even the birds outside seemed to be listening. Mrs. Lee looked heavenward as her voice began to crack.

“What I wouldn’t give just to hear those sounds one more time before I sleep.” A single tear wandered down her face, landing noiselessly on her lapel.

“In the end, it’s these small things that you remember the little imperfections that make them perfect for you.”

“So, to my beautiful children,” Mrs. Lee swept one hand toward the front row, “I hope that one day you, too, will find yourselves life partners who are as beautifully imperfect as your father was to me.”

Mrs. Lee’s eloquent tribute to her husband left the entire audience in tears. With just a few heartfelt words she summed up the mystery and magic of a lifelong marriage built on the foundation of love, imperfection, and acceptance that knows no bounds.

God or Goddess: Which One Should I Choose?

The Pagan Perspective recently answered the following question by one of its Youtube viewers:

What are your thoughts on a male following the goddess in paganism and a female following the god.  Do you feel that the sex of someone should determine if they follow the goddess or the god in their pagan life?  I’m male and beginning to learn about paganism.  I feel that I connect more to the goddess but I have noticed from reading things and watching videos that males tend to lean more toward the god and females to the goddess.

Speaking from a Wiccan experience, Mary, the speaker, answers the question by looking at the people that surround her.  She contends that the followers of the Wiccan tradition are drawn to both the god and the goddess and can relate to aspects of both.  Followers who want to honor both strive to understand what is power and warrior-like in the goddess and what is kind and nurturing in the god.   However, if you study both of them at their depths they will both encompass every experience that will take us to the levels of supreme wisdom and confidence.

Mary asks that you try to relate to both god and goddess in their many different aspects.  If you feel more connected to one or the other then find out why.  See if you can find that which you admire in one, in the other.  It’s important to understand who both are so that you can explore who you might be.  The femaleness and the maleness of the deities doesn’t define who they are in terms of potential.  It also doesn’t limit or define them or us.

If we are not relating to the god and goddess as equals, we may not be in tune with who we are.  Don’t limit what god or goddess can be.  Explore both but if in the point in your study you lean towards one or the other, enjoy what you have to learn and then decide what you want in your life.

 

To view the Youtube video go here.

The Step After the Ouch!

Have you ever wanted to pursue your dreams but you were afraid that you would fail and fall flat on your face?  What would happen if instead of giving up, you decided to get up and take the next step?

Darren LaCroix gave an award winning speech where he addressed this issue in particular.  Not only did he give an outstanding speech, he was willing to literally fall down in front of a live audience, just to show you that it’s okay if you fall, just don’t stay down.

Darren had a dream of becoming a sandwich shop owner.  He successfully managed to start it and took a $60,000 debt and doubled it in 6 months.  In a financial sense, he failed and fell flat on his face.  However, he decided not to stay down and instead he learned the lesson so that he wouldn’t do it again.

We all have dreams and we all have excuses as to why we can’t reach them.  We’ll say to ourselves that now’s not a good time but maybe when we’re thinner, or when we have more money, or when the kids get older, then we’ll pursue our dreams.  But maybe, just maybe, our true reason is that we fear falling flat on our face and having people around us laugh at our attempts.

Remember the last time you fell.  Did you hope no one noticed?  Were you more concerned about what others thought of you than you were with your wounds?  Did you stay down too long?

What would  you do if you knew you couldn’t fail?  What would you do if instead of staying down on the ground you decided to get up and take the next step after the big ouch?

People will make fun of your first step.  But those strangers are just obstacles in your way.  We also have friends and family that love us and don’t want to see us fall on our faces.  Everyone you encounter is just part of the process so just take in in stride and do something.  It doesn’t have to be a big first step.  And even if you fall, it’s the step after the ouch that counts.  Use that fall as valuable negative information.  Information that will help you figure out what will work and won’t.

When we get caught up in our fears and can’t move, we forget that if we lean forward and take a risk and fall on our face, when we get up we’ve still made progress.

So go ahead and fall, but fall forward.

 

To learn more about Darren LaCroix go here.

To watch the video on Youtube go here.

Jessica’s Daily Affirmation

Just how young can you be in order to start your daily affirmation exercises?  Try 4 years old.

On a day when little Jessica was feeling particularly thankful, she stood in front of a mirror and listed off everyone she liked:  her dad, cousins, aunts, mom, and sister.  She then went on to expressing how much she liked her school, her hair, her pajamas, and her room.

My whole house is great… I can do anything good…

Jessica is now 13 years old with aspirations of being either an interior designer or a lawyer.  But back in 2001 when this video was filmed, she was a cute little girl doing something that adults often forget to do:  talk to ourselves in the mirror and tell ourselves how much we love and appreciate everyone in our lives.

Several authors, experts, and teachers assert that having a positive mental attitude supported by affirmations like little Jessica’s will help us achieve success.  Affirmations are an extra tool in our arsenal to allow us to reach our goals and potential.

Affirmations are also an excellent way to raise our self esteem.  When things aren’t going well it’s easy to tell ourselves what we could’ve done or said to make things better.  But it’s much tougher for us to stop our negative thoughts in their tracks, go to a mirror, and tell ourselves that we love us just the way we are.   If we had started this practice as young as Jessica, it might have made it easier to do as we grew older.  However, it’s never too late to start.  Daily-Affirmations.com gives us a great example of the words you can say to yourself every day until you believe them:

I love and accept myself. I understand and accept that my imperfection makes me perfect. Therefore, I am perfect exactly as I am and will remain perfect as I learn and grow.

To watch the Youtube video go here.

To get more affirmations from Daily-Affirmations go here.

The Girl Who Silenced the World for 6 Minutes

In 1992, 12-year-old Severn Suzuki addressed the United Nations Earth Summit as a representative of the Environmental Children’s Organization, which she founded at age nine.  She gave a dramatic speech which was received with great acclaim, not only by the delegates present at the time, but also as an internet sensation: the video of her speech has over 4.7 million views on Youtube.

Severn went on to write a short book entitled Tell the World, received a Bachelors degree from Yale University in ecology and evolutionary biology, and helped launch the Skyfish Project – a think tank focusing on the environment.

Here is a transcript of her historical speech:

Hello, I’m Severn Suzuki speaking for E.C.O. – The Environmental Children’s Organization.

We are a group of twelve and thirteen-year-olds from Canada trying to make a difference:
Vanessa Suttie, Morgan Geisler, Michelle Quigg and me. We raised all the money ourselves to come six thousand miles to tell you adults you must change your ways. Coming here today, I have no hidden agenda. I am fighting for my future.

Losing my future is not like losing an election or a few points on the stock market. I am here to speak for all generations to come.

I am here to speak on behalf of the starving children around the world whose cries go unheard.

I am here to speak for the countless animals dying across this planet because they have nowhere left to go. We cannot afford to be not heard.

I am afraid to go out in the sun now because of the holes in the ozone. I am afraid to breathe the air because I don’t know what chemicals are in it.

I used to go fishing in Vancouver with my dad until just a few years ago we found the fish full of cancers. And now we hear about animals and plants going extinct every day―vanishing forever.

In my life, I have dreamt of seeing the great herds of wild animals, jungles and rainforests full of birds and butterflies, but now I wonder if they will even exist for my children to see.

Did you have to worry about these little things when you were my age?

All this is happening before our eyes and yet we act as if we have all the time we want and all the solutions. I’m only a child and I don’t have all the solutions, but I want you to realise, neither do you!

  • You don’t know how to fix the holes in our ozone layer.
  • You don’t know how to bring salmon back up a dead stream.
  • You don’t know how to bring back an animal now extinct.
  • And you can’t bring back forests that once grew where there is now desert.

If you don’t know how to fix it, please stop breaking it!

Here, you may be delegates of your governments, business people, organisers, reporters or poiticians― but really you are mothers and fathers, brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles―and all of you are somebody’s child.

I’m only a child yet I know we are all part of a family, five billion strong, in fact, 30 million species strong and we all share the same air, water and soil―borders and governments will never change that.

I’m only a child yet I know we are all in this together and should act as one single world towards one single goal.

In my anger, I am not blind, and in my fear, I am not afraid to tell the world how I feel.

In my country, we make so much waste, we buy and throw away, buy and throw away, and yet northern countries will not share with the needy. Even when we have more than enough, we are afraid to lose some of our wealth, afraid to share.

In Canada, we live the privileged life, with plenty of food, water and shelter―we have watches, bicycles, computers and television sets.

Two days ago here in Brazil, we were shocked when we spent some time with some children living on the streets. And this is what one child told us: “I wish I was rich and if I were, I would give all the street children food, clothes, medicine, shelter and love and affection.”

If a child on the street who has nothing, is willing to share, why are we who have everything still so greedy?

I can’t stop thinking that these children are my age, that it makes a tremendous difference where you are born, that I could be one of those children living in the Favellas of Rio; I could be a child starving in Somalia; a victim of war in the Middle East or a beggar in India.

I’m only a child yet I know if all the money spent on war was spent on ending poverty and finding environmental answers, what a wonderful place this earth would be!

At school, even in kindergarten, you teach us to behave in the world. You teach us:

  • not to fight with others,
  • to work things out,
  • to respect others,
  • to clean up our mess,
  • not to hurt other creatures
  • to share―not be greedy.

Then why do you go out and do the things you tell us not to do?

Do not forget why you’re attending these conferences, who you’re doing this for―we are your own children. You are deciding what kind of world we will grow up in. Parents should be able to comfort their children by saying “everything’s going to be alright”, “we’re doing the best we can” and “it’s not the end of the world”.

But I don’t think you can say that to us anymore. Are we even on your list of priorities? My father always says “You are what you do, not what you say.”

Well, what you do makes me cry at night. You grown ups say you love us. I challenge you, please make your actions reflect your words. Thank you for listening.

 

To view the Youtube video go here.

To view Severn’s page on Facebook go here.

I Hereby Decree…

What would you decree if you had the power to make it happen?

Deanna Johnston sits down one day like and other and takes out her Ascended Masters cards and pulls out one card that inspires her.  It is the a card that instructs her to take charge of the situation and gives Moses as an example.  She reads the back of the card:

The prophet Moses displayed courage and leadership throughout his lifetime.  His clear decrees about his intentions led to miracles…

This got Deanna thinking about what she would decree if she were able to raise her vibration and become a multi-dimensional human.  Yes, she could decree the basics such as  a restored and awakened humanity, but what about the everyday things that we all wish we could have power over?

Among the things that she decrees are:  no leg or armpit hair, being able to slamdunk a basketball and play the guitar like a pro, have hair that’s always at the height of fashion, and being able to work out her entire body by raising her eyebrows.

What makes this 3 minute video special is that Deanna had the courage to not only voice, but film what regular Jane’s and Joe’s wish for.    She took an idea that she read and decided to apply it to her life.  The energy with which she shares her decrees is contagious and make the viewer think about what their decrees would be.  Sure we can all decree the end of world hunger or peace on earth, but no one ever really talks about the everyday things that we’d like to control or at least affect.

If you were to make a video like Deanna’s, what silly, everyday things would you decree?

To watch Deanna Johnston’s video on Youtube go here.

 

Rent-A-Person

Lonely, flushing away time, with no cash and no date.  That’s the story of a bathroom attendant who’s life is passing by as he spends his days earning little money and catering to men’s restroom needs.

But all things change one day when he’s approached by a desperate man who asks him to get in his car so that he can take the carpool lane and be on time for his busy life.  This leads the bathroom attendant to leave the smelly bathroom in which he’s spent his life and instead lead the life of a successful entrepreneur.  He begins a business in which people can rent a person to save time by being able to drive in the carpool lane.

Things go smoothly until his workers demand more than he’s able to give.  Ultimately, he decides that he can’t meet their needs and that even with all his money, he hasn’t been able to get a date.  He goes back to being a bathroom attendant and finally achieves his goal of getting a date when he meets his counterpart in the ladies bathroom.

In the 13 minutes that this short film lasts, it manages to remind us of a valuable lesson: money doesn’t buy love and happiness.  If we can stop pitying ourselves for a moment, we might be able to find love in our surroundings.  We just have to look with our heart rather than our fears.

To watch the short o Youtube click here.

 

World Revolution

Across the world there is a movement happening.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PS91BaRaqZw&feature=player_embedded

This short video shows what we will not see or hear comments on from the mainstream media.  The video spans the protest happening all across our world and there is an underlying connection of change that they all share.  There is a shift happening, can you feel it?

 

Take a seven and half minute ride through the beginnings of a revolution that has the potential to lead to a new world. If we can look within ourselves we can create a world of love, not fear.

Validation

Excuse me, but do you validate?

Validation is a short film written and directed by Kurt Kuenne.   The viewer is captured by the story of, a smiley and happy parking attendant (T.J. Thyne), who goes beyond the call of duty and rather than just validating drivers’ parking tickets, he includes a special kind of validation: their value and worth as unique individuals.

As the parking attendant compliments people on their appearance and demeanor and touches on their inner qualities, you can see the smiles growing.  Our happy attendant goes beyond the everyday man and brings validation to even President Bush and Saddam Hussein.

Life seems to being going great for him until he enters the DMV where he is confronted with a beautiful photographer (Vicki Davis) who strictly adheres to the DMV policy of NO SMILING.  Despite trying and trying our parking attendant eventually becomes defeated because there is one person he can’t make smile. Can our happy parking attendant pull himself out of it?

What happens to someone that makes them stop smiling?

To watch the short on Youtube go here.

Dear Woman,

 

Dear Woman,

This video is part of the Manifesto for Conscious Men.  It acknowledges the hurt, pain and suffering that men have caused women throughout history while at the same time appreciating the gifts that women bring to the table.  It invites women to unite with men to create greater miracles.

This document acknowledges many thousands of years of dominance of masculine power, and offers an apology for the suppression of women, in the spirit of a fresh start. The authors do not advocate the domination of men by women or feminine energy, but feel that a balance and equal respect for both energies will allow for a new wave of evolution on our planet.

To watch the video on Youtube go here.  To learn more about the Conscious Men project go here.