Soulgineering Resources to grow your soul

We all have experiences from our past that haunt us, influence us and affect the decisions we make today.  Some experiences are so painful that we alter the very course of our lives based off of decisions that were made while in the midst of the resulting pain or despair.  The precise moment that we have such an experience, combined with the resulting choices and decisions that we have to make, become a fork in the road of our lives. Here is my fork in the road… For as long as I can remember I have been a person who I consider to be either in the middle of the road or sub-par.  In school I knew I could do much better than I did, but for some reason, I wouldn’t put in the effort to even try and do better. I tried so little in fact, that I eventually just dropped out.  At work I would let myself get ... Read More »

We all want to be Happy, Healthy and Successful. The good news is that it is all within your reach. A life coach can help and guide you to reach your goals, to become who and what  you want to be, and to free you from all your self-limiting beliefs. Life coaching is based on overcoming your obstacles and then using practical, forward thinking techniques you can use in everyday life and decisions that will achieve a change in direction for a better future. It is one of the most powerful support systems to help get you moving in the direction you want.   A life coach can help you to clearly identify your goals and then guide you towards making them real. The life coaching process is a journey of self-discovery and will offer you alternative life choices. You will be amazed at how this process with benefit you and helps you move forward with a positive outlook. Life coaches make ... Read More »

First it begins with knowing you want to help others, probably not knowing how or what to do, just a knowing that you want to help others. Then that may turn into the wanting to help others heal, and in order to do that you must first begin to heal yourself and sort of clean out your own junk so you can better help others heal from theirs. You may not fully understand what to do, you just have this overwhelming urge to start healing yourself and a burning desire to help others. As you wake up to this calling you may find yourself going through alot of changes and letting go of the old or unnecessary things in your life. This letting go and balancing is necessary in this healing process. When we learn through experience what it is to heal from circumstances and experiences that are challenging, we are better equipped to help heal those we cross in our ... Read More »

Whether you’ve been with someone for a few weeks, months, or years, determining whether you should stay in a relationship or leave is a decision that can be hard to reach.  You once thought that you were perfect for each other but you are starting to have doubts.  Or perhaps your partner has started hinting that you might be better off if you go separate ways.  How do you go about deciding whether to stay and hope it gets better, or leave and cut your losses?  While the answer lies fully within you, there are guidelines that can help you determine how you really feel and what route you should take.  You can choose to talk to a counselor, a pastor or priest, a close friend, or a member of your family.  However, in the meantime you can always start the process by stopping to take full inventory of where your relationship stands and where you want to be. The ... Read More »

The online dating site BeautifulPeople.com has come under fire for a controversial move to dump over 30,000 people that it considered too ugly. The 30K+ people that are being dropped from their membership roster came about as a result of the Shrek virus that infected their site and allowed anyone to register.  Normally, in order to gain membership an applicant must submit their picture and be “voted in” by members of the opposite sex. The site promises that by joining their dating service you will be able to be a part of the most beautiful online community where you can “meet REAL beautiful people who actually look in real life as they do online.” It is their desire to adhere to their rules and guidelines that has prompted Beautiful People to make such a move: “We have to stick to our founding principles of only accepting beautiful people – that’s what our members have paid for,” Greg Hodge, managing director ... Read More »

Women: when was the last time you had a real orgasm?  One that fulfilled you?  One that left you feeling whole and complete?  I’m not talking about just a brief climax but an orgasm that left you feeling alive and at one with the universe.  If it was recently then good for you! If you are like a lot of women, chances are it’s been awhile or you might even have never experienced one.  There’s an abundance of excuses including cultural and religious taboos, lack of comfort with your body, or some other excuse.  If you are a western woman you might be saying things like: I work too hard, I eat too much, I diet too much, I drink too much, I shop too much, I give too much, etc.   Excuses abound but where are the solutions? Nicole Daedone, founder of OneTaste and author of Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm, was invited to give ... Read More »

Sitting on the bathroom floor puking my guts out, I made a resolution that I intended to keep:  I would never ever try to commit suicide again.  At the time I didn’t know if I had been successful at stopping the pills from killing me, but I had the sudden realization that I didn’t really want to die.  No one was worth dying for, not even someone whom I loved with all my heart.  So I stopped, hid the suicide note under the bed, and went to the hospital in the morning to get my stomach pumped. It all started at age 14 when I met someone that I fell madly in love with.  At the time I thought I knew it all and after seven years of dating, I found out that I didn’t.  Suffice it to say that I married for love and purposefully turned a blind eye to what everyone was telling me:  that he wasn’t the ... Read More »

These women married themselves out of an immense self love.  Although these stories appeared in the news awhile ago, they still bring up a good point.  Do we have enough self love to marry ourselves? Glee’s Susan Sylvester The cheerleeding coach in Fox’s musical comedy-drama television series married herself in a blue full-length tracksuit gown.  She also decided to officiate at her own wedding.  After trying her best at an online dating service, Susan decided that she was her own best match. Susan is not alone.  Chen Wei-yih, Jennifer Hoes, and Aya de Leon also married themselves and even went on their own honeymoon. Chen Wei-yih In 2010 Taiwanese Chen Wei-yih, whose name in English is Only, decided she would marry herself.  She was 30 years old and her personal life and career were going well, but she hadn’t found a life partner.  So she decided to take matters into her own hands and tie the knot with herself.  She ... Read More »

We all struggle with our own feelings of self worth at some time or another.  However, no one ever stops to think that the answer is to heal yourself from within rather than waiting for someone to love you, or until you get the job or house or car that you like. Nadia Khalil, author of Origins of Truth and Little Wing, tells us just how important it is to heal your own soul: Healing your soul is truly in your hands.  Healing by telling yourself that you care about you. That you want to be prudent to your soul. That you want to be your best and that sometimes when you don’t feel you are your best simply ask yourself why? And then tell yourself, I love you anyway. Accept that you are not perfect, that you are love and love in itself is perfection, and in that perfection of love and not your actions you have room to ... Read More »